Divorce Questions & Confessions

Divorce Q & A: How to deal w/someone who doesnt coparent, is mentally not capable(PTSD/avoidant ignores me

Divorce Q & A: How to compel a co parent the impact of negative or positive reinforcement betwn parents?

Divorce Q & A: Actual steps to "letting go" ?

Divorce Q & A: How to deal with parental alienation

Divorce Q & A: How do you set effective boundaries with a narcopath?

Divorce Q & A: How do I move on without feeling bad that I am making my life better?

Divorce Q & A: What do I tell our kids about why we got divorced??

Your "ex": My coparent

Your "ex": ??head

Your "ex": Soul Crusher

Your "ex": My son's dad.

Unfriend: Yep and had a thing with one of them for a year or so after ?????

Unfriend: Nope. Wanted to expose his probably lying and show what he was missing out on ??

Unfriend: Yep. Him and every single friend and family member. #boundaries

Unfriend: Not yet. He still hasn't told them and there are a few I hope to stay connected with

Unfriend: He didn't have any ??

Unfriend: Yep! But a couple of his friends hunted me down to tell me I was far too good for him. ??

Unfriend: The few she has helped hide the affair so it was an easy goodbye to all of them.

Unfriend: Nope. Didn't unfriend my ex either-share kid pics. & his new profile pic is sad/satisfying ??

Unfriend: Yup - sayonara bitches!

Unfriend: They stopped talking to me. Made it easy for me

Unfriend: Yup! And our mutual friends that supported the ex

Unfriend: Unfriending my friends boyfriend after they break up is so satisfying. Like bye peasant, I never liked you anyways.

Describe your dream vacation: Planning my first solo trip. A little scary after 20 years of marriage.

Describe your dream vacation: A virtual reality where I can kill my ex and not go to jail

Describe your dream vacation: White Lotus location and funding - 10 days, completely disconnected

Describe your dream vacation: Mountains, trees, frozen pond, snow, skates

Describe your dream vacation: A private island oasis

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Traumatic

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : That was the easy part lol. The hard part is him participating in the divorce process.

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : I said no to being emotionally coerced into a non-monogamous marriage. He left.

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : She didn't believe me. Then blamed me for moving on.

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : She didn't want to have the talk until she was sure she had a safe landing place.

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Talk? All silent treatment here.

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Middle of a the 100 th fight of the week I said I want a divorce and haven't changed my mind since!

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You know how badly you've truly f*cked up and have lost everything.

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I wish you were trolling my ex and her boyfriend

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : "It's NOT that common, it DOESN'T happen to every guy, and it IS a big deal!" ??

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : First thing ppl say to me now years later is how cringy your tiktoks are and ask if ur okay ??

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Living my best life free from you

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Stellar life choices idiot

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : child and spousal support are to be used to pay for your part, not just to increase yr savings.

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Hey Narc. Stop trying to cut me out of the kids lives. You're only hurting the kids

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Please tell @ to stop being a petty d-bag!!!

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Go to therapy

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : She's the Wish version of me

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : The world does not revolve around you! Grow up!

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : No I wont switch weekends, Y would u need to drive 7 hours to pick up your girlfriend from the airport?

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I'd like to tell him what a chump I think he is and that I'll never, ever forgive him.

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I know you're still sleeping with her and keep telling me lies. I won't ever trust you again (with the kids)

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I'm not even sure I can/should type it here. ????

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You are a narcissist sociopath whose abuse of process has spent all of the money we had.

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : me:?? vs You: 0

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : So many. I send them to my therapist instead ??????

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : To my almost ex girlfriend that he regrets her and they will never last ?????

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Were you that cheap today that you didn't feed our daughter? (She came back to me hungry.)

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Not sure it's safe fro social media lol

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : FYI I just told your sisters that we got divorced because you cheated on me.

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Depending on day - its either I still love you or hate your guts!

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : "Hey, hope you're well. But also, f*ck off."

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You blame the women in your life for all your problems but common denominator is YOU

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I need ideas - I was married for 25 years....

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Invited alll my friends and family to my divorce party.. it took a very long time and needed celebrating

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Changed my profile to my maiden name

How did you let people know about your divorce? : My ex posted a pic of himself crying and told all of social media

How did you let people know about your divorce? : The smile on my face! ??

How did you let people know about your divorce? : She didn't tell anyone. I told people when I absolutely had too.

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I turned our wedding website into a divorce announcement and shared the link on social media

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Slowly and quietly deleted pics with my ex on Instagram until gone. Selfies from solo trip.

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Christmas photos with just me and my son ?????

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Conversation w/ immediate family. Social media/word of mouth/casually talking for others

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Deleted wedding photos. Almost replaced w/meme "once a cheater, always a cheater" ??

How did you let people know about your divorce? : She posted selfies and I changed my profile pic to me and the kids.

How did you let people know about your divorce? : That's how we did it ????? friend did a whole multiple IG slide announcement, they're amicabl

How did you let people know about your divorce? : On a need to know basis. And then a simple "we're separated/divorced" with no details.

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Not til the ink is dry

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I was changing my name, and I am a teacher, I made a public post asking for support and understanding

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Chanded status to SINGLE ??

Ask a lawyer : Any advice for a stay at home mom filing for divorce?

Ask a lawyer : He's moved out. Can I move with the kids without his permission while separated?

Ask a lawyer : How to document for a change in parenting time with a high conflict ex

Ask a lawyer : Is 250k per child normal for a life ins request

Ask a lawyer : W a settlement agrmnt, not signed, how do I frame request for reimbursements..?

Ask a lawyer : What can I do for pets left behind? 2 years apart because I'm afraid of ex. He says he will keep them:(

Ask a lawyer : Married over 25 years, not div. yet, if I leave martial home do I forfeit property rights

Ask a lawyer : Why's it take sooooo long???

Ask a lawyer : I'm a SAHM - will I get enough support now that I'm going to get a job and need childcare?

How did your employer support you? : Helped cover costs of marriage counseling initially

How did your employer support you? : Understanding but more workload, the distraction honestly helped a ton.

How did your employer support you? : Added more work!!!!!! ??

How did your employer support you? : Big issue is with needing to clarify which lawyer (family or employment) I'm talking about

How did your employer support you? : Paying for my divorce and all the headaches around it, plus a little extra hopefully because of that

How did your employer support you? : I'm suing them because they put it in writing that my performance was poor due to family status. They're

How did your employer support you? : By riding me about everything and trying to fire me.

How did your employer support you? : Understanding low productivity and having patience like no other. Took a year to get back to normal

How did your employer support you? : Told her I decided to divorce, she handed me tissue, said I'll be fine and it's his lost. Got a Promotion 2!

How did your employer support you? : Sat me down and opened up to me. Showed they actually cared about me as a person

How did your employer support you? : What support?

How did your employer support you? : Less Workload

How did your employer support you? : They let me vent. But I work in behavioral health so that's cheating.